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“"I am sure I cried for two days together when Colonel Miller's regiment went away. I thought I should have broken my heart"”
Mrs Bennet · Chapter 7
Focus: “broken my heart”
Mrs Bennet reveals that her obsession with officers and marriage spans her entire life — she was once Lydia, and her emotional immaturity has never developed beyond girlish enthusiasm for red coats.
Technique 1 — HYPERBOLE & ARRESTED DEVELOPMENT
The claim of crying for 'two days together' is characteristically hyperbolic — Mrs Bennet exaggerates her past distress as she exaggerates her present. The phrase 'broken my heart' employs the language of romantic melodrama (exaggerated emotional writing) to describe a teenage attachment to soldiers. This arrested development (failure to mature beyond an early stage) connects her to Lydia: mother and youngest daughter share the same emotional register.
The aside is triggered by Lydia's excitement about officers — creating a chilling generational echo. Mrs Bennet unknowingly reveals that Lydia is repeating her own life pattern: unchecked enthusiasm → impulsive attachment → a marriage without depth. Austen uses this moment as prolepsis (foreshadowing) of Lydia's elopement.
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RAD — STAGNATE
Mrs Bennet demonstrates that she has not matured beyond her youth — she speaks of officers with the same breathless excitement at forty as she felt at fifteen. This emotional stasis (lack of change) is her defining characteristic and explains why she cannot guide Lydia: she cannot correct behaviour she still unconsciously endorses.
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Technique 2 — AUSTEN'S INDIRECT FORESHADOWING
Austen uses Mrs Bennet's nostalgic aside to foreshadow Lydia's disastrous elopement with Wickham — a man in a regiment. The parallel is never stated explicitly; the reader must infer it. This is Austen's characteristic indirect narrative method: she trusts the reader to notice patterns and draw conclusions without authorial commentary.
The fact that Mrs Bennet sees nothing dangerous in this parallel — she tells the anecdote fondly — reveals her as an unreliable moral compass. She cannot protect her daughters because she shares their worst instincts. Mr Bennet's failure to intervene with Lydia is thus compounded by Mrs Bennet's active (if unwitting) encouragement.
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Context (AO3)
OFFICERS & REGENCY ROMANCE
Military officers in Regency England were glamorous figures: their red coats, social dancing, and temporary postings created an atmosphere of romantic excitement. For families like the Bennets, officers represented potential husbands. But their transience (temporary presence) also made them dangerous — they could seduce and leave without consequence, exactly as Wickham does.
FAMILY & MORAL FORMATION
Austen consistently shows that children inherit their parents' moral frameworks. Lydia's recklessness mirrors Mrs Bennet's emotional immaturity; Elizabeth's independence mirrors (and improves upon) Mr Bennet's critical intelligence. The family is presented as the primary site of moral formation — and the Bennet family is deeply flawed in this regard.
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WOW — SOCIAL REPRODUCTION (Bourdieu)
Pierre Bourdieu argues that families reproduce their social values across generations — children inherit not just wealth but dispositions (habitual tendencies) and tastes. Mrs Bennet's revelation that she was once like Lydia demonstrates Bourdieu's point precisely: Lydia has inherited her mother's habitus (internalised social behaviour) — the same emotional patterns, the same attraction to officers, the same inability to see beyond immediate pleasure. Austen shows that without intervention (which Mr Bennet fails to provide), social behaviour is inherited as surely as an estate — and the entail on behaviour is even harder to break.
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